化被動為主動
如果我們生活在一個父母與家人經常為我們安排各種事情的家庭中，我們很有可能就變得非常的被動，就是等別人安排各種機會與事情，基本上就是“ 等天上掉餡餅”的模式。
被動化已經成為我們生活與學習的重要方式，而在這種方式中我們流失很多的機會與逼發自己潛力的條件。
所以可以經常嘗試做一些超出自己原來行為習慣的主動行為，以衝擊自己原來的行為惰性。很多時候我們會發現主動並沒有我們想象的那麼多障礙，很多事情我們原來還完全勝任，有些事情只要有鍛煉的機會，我們實際上很願意做或者去發現做的趣味，只是過去沒有太多主動的機會而以，一旦有了主動，就有了新的空間與新的價值。
好久沒寫網誌
今天睡到快中午才甘願爬了起床… 然後就把搞亂了的屋子整理過一遍，掃了個地，堆積的衣服丟到洗衣機攪和一下，然後梳洗過後就出門往輪渡前的中山路尋寶去了。這四天老婆都不在，感覺什麼都不對勁，到廈門後這將近半年的時光我們就像連體嬰一樣每天24小時都在一起，這下突然放空，好像腦袋也放空了一樣。
還好今天有收穫，雖沒找到傳說中的地下片商（店開在地下室）但是也被我找到一家門面超正派，暗室賣盜版的影音店，有點出運的感覺，雖然片子沒有廣東多，但已經比路上騎著摩托車兜售的電影小販好多啦！
Learn to rise early
Recently I’m focus on getting my work and personal life in a better balance, try not exhausted by endless work and have no energy left to play. By use my time efficiently I believe that I can make this happen.
What I do first is to count my precious time by my fingers, and no surprise I found that I got 24 hours / day only, I believe whole universe does, and that’s quite fair with everybody. Second thing I did was subtracting my working hours and time I spend in the company from around-the-clock, and result is 11.5 hours, if I had something to do to boost my personal life up, It must be in these 11.5 hours! So I start working on it. And what I try so far is to learn “How to get up early in the morning”, it’s no big deal getting up early in the morning, the hardest part is “Stay Up” in the early morning. 繼續閱讀文章 »
The Man with Hat is Back
Every generation has it’s own hero, but this one really rocks, Indiana Jones is back! “
“Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull” coming to theaters everywhere May 22nd. Just grab your ticket for the hottest show in town.
And for those who really enjoy the film like myself, there are some good stuff on the net waiting for you to take a look, links as below.
The Darjeeling Limited
The Darjeeling Limited is the film of director Wes Anderson. The movie is about self-searching, friendship and journey of three brothers who barely not talking to each other for nearly one year. The old brother (Owen Wilson) plans the whole trip, This spiritual journey start inside a crowed Indian train across the country. In this film you can get some idea about how India may looks like, and lost yourself in this lovely comedy. I LOVE this film!
DVD version includes some bonus features that I recommend you not to watch it right away after you’ve been through a great journey, believe me it’ll smashes all your imagination by reveals the making of the film. At least hold it for a couple days than go back to which it again if you still want to.
This film contains a short film named Hotel Chevalier at the beginning, I was totally cached by the background folk song “Where do you go to my lovely”, witch is by Peter Sarstedt in 1969, don’t miss the soundtrack if you have a chance to grab one for yourself.
Let it snow, no more.
As a southern kid I really enjoy the white world during the winter time in those snowing countries, each time when I think about Christmas, snowball, sledding, skating, all the winter sports, and even just one piece of snowflake, it’ll makes smile showing on my face automatically. I yearned for it. But maybe not this time.
Couple weeks till now, China had a very serious snowstorm and it paralyzed the country’s transportation systems across southeast to northwest provinces.
Chinese lunar new year is in sight, next weekend China going to have the biggest travel flow of the year, most of country’s migrant workers has this annul holiday only, they saved their wages for year and all count on this holiday, they also looking forward to see families back home, but the weather condition was so harsh, hundreds of thousand people stand in cold wind in front of station wait for their train to come, some of them even stayed there for several nights already, some of them running out of money just because unexpected situation expended the costs of journey home. 繼續閱讀文章 »
